Many Trumpers now feel emboldened to use his tactics and “fuck your feelings.” There are legal recourses, which unfortunately might be the last resort and nuclear option.
I found my (now) ex’s diary while packing my things. While not a phone, it was also pre-smart tech. It gave me a whole new perspective on how she desired sexual intimacy with others. She manipulated our relationship to achieve that goal. Had I known about her desires at the time, perhaps we might never have married, had kids, then she went down that path again, ending the marriage.